7 Surefire Ways to Overcome Your Prospects’ Skepticism

attraction marketing

Famed showman P. T. Barnum once orchestrated a stunt so shocking…

It changed the face of the entire world.


And no, this's got nothing to do with Barnum's circuses, fake mermaids, side shows, or duping the public with his elaborate and infamous hoaxes.

In fact, we all owe Barnum a huge debt of gratitude for this unintentional act of public service.

Clearly that's a bold claim…

So now it's time to prove it, right?

Without further ado, here's the story…

In 1853, Barnum paid an unknown, yet enterprising entrepreneur $100 to create a jaw-dropping spectacle…

With the explicit goal of boosting attendance at the Crystal Palace Exhibition at the New York World's Fair.

For, you see…

Ticket sales were in a slump…

New York Crystal Palace. Image Credit: Wikimedia Commons

New York Crystal Palace. Image Credit: Wikimedia Commons

The exhibitions at the World's Fair had been on display for over a year, and Barnum needed something new and novel to draw a crowd.

Enter Elisha Otis…

Barnum hired Otis to demonstrate his newly invented safety brake, which would prevent a hoisting platform (also known as an elevator or lift) from free falling if the cable snapped.

And, believe it or not…

Otis' demonstration changed the entire world!

38883_blogbanner_101316-04You see, in the mid-19th century, most buildings were only 2-to-3 stories high.

The tallest were 5-or-6 stories.

But these were almost-exclusively the steeples, spires, and bell towers of the churches, chapels, and cathedrals, which then dominated the skylines of all major metropolitan areas.

The reason buildings were so squat?

Because it's WORK to climb up flights of steps!

I mean, let's face it…

Huffing up a bunch of steps is a drag, right?

So cities grew outwards instead of upwards.

Now, quick point of clarification here…

It's important to note that elevators weren't new in 1853.

You might even recall that…

Roman gladiators were lifted up to the arena floor on massive hoisting platforms from the staging areas beneath the great coliseum, during ancient times.

Even the ancient Greek mathematician Archimedes (287 BC—212 BC) described animal-powered lifts in his writings.

But one thing remained true since the days of antiquity…

No one wanted elevators in their buildings!

38883_blogbanner_101316-03And for good reason too…

Because they weren't safe.

The hemp cables would commonly fail due to age, overuse, and being overloaded.

And thus…

Elevators had a low public opinion and were mainly used in unmanned and industrial applications.

Okay, now you know the backstory.

Let's get back to…

How Otis forever changed the public's perception of the lift

38883_blogbanner_101316-05Barnum, ever the talented promoter…

Hyped up a HUGE crowd with the promise of witnessing a “death-defying” spectacle at the Crystal Palace.

Which went like this…

Otis, towering three or four stories above the gathered crowd in an open platform elevator…

Instructed an assistant to SLASH the single cable supporting him with one dramatic swing of a saber!

The crowd gasped!

But just as soon as the cord was severed, the safety brake immediately snapped into action.

The platform didn't fall like a stone…

It came to a complete stop within just a few inches.

Otis then proudly proclaimed to the transfixed crowd…

“All safe, ladies and gentlemen, all safe.”

Image Credit: Wikimedia Commons

There was a ROAR of applause.

Word quickly spread.

The formerly-unknown Otis was the subject of a frenzy of publicity.

The public was enthralled.

Sales of his safety brake immediately skyrocketed.

He literally went from having 7 total orders to having thousands of orders, all within a year, and sales began to consistently double with each passing year.

This singular moment ushered in the era of the high-rise and the skyscraper.

Which, as you can now see, forever changed the skylines around the globe and permanently revolutionized the way humanity occupy the face of the world.

Once we started building up, we never looked back.

All from the confidence imparted by one dramatic spectacle.

So thanks for that talent scouting, P. T. Barnum!

And here's what we fellow entrepreneurs can learn from this story…

The unparalleled power of demonstrating PROOF

38883_blogbanner_101316-07As they say, talk is cheap.

But when you PROVE something, beyond a shadow of a doubt, there's no room for argument.

Your demonstration becomes a self-evident fact.

Now, before you start thinking that you're not selling elevators, and this particular story doesn't really apply to you…

Gary Bencivenga, who's roundly considered the greatest living copywriter, once said…

“I have always advised my clients to build their products, newsletters, books, and ezines squarely on their strongest proof elements.”

This is because PROOF is the strongest selling angle.

Bar none.

Now, here's an example you can probably relate to…

Ever see networkers show off their commission checks?

It's a powerful proof demonstration and causes belief levels to skyrocket.

But—and this is a BIG “but”—it's illegal.

As in, against the law illegal.

Just in case you weren't aware…

This is legally a kind of “misleading income claim,” which can (and does) result in lawsuits. Not to mention it's the wrong kind of attraction marketing.

So don't do that!

Instead, let's talk about…

How you CAN prove your claims without getting into legal “hot water”

Now, there are LOTS of proof methods…

Some will apply to your business, others won't.

Some you can implement right away, others will take some planning.

So keep in mind that these are what you need to be thinking about and working towards in your sales process…


Testimonials are POWERFUL.

So as you help your team and clients get results, always ask for testimonials.

And display them prominently.

The best example to showcase this point comes courtesy of renowned copywriter John Carlton.

On his “Simple Selling System” course sales letter, literally HALF the page is testimonials.

It's a WALL of social proof.

Google it if you want to take a look.

Don't have any testimonials yet?

If you're an affiliate, you can probably borrow a few from whatever you're promoting.


Lots of companies offer free samples.

Depending on what you're selling, you might even be provided with samples to distribute, especially if what you're selling is consumable.

Samples are fantastic for proof.

After all, the prospect gets to experience the product first hand.

AWeber (one of our preferred email service providers) offers a 30-day trial.

Evernote (and many other pieces of software) offer a free tier.

This may or may not apply to your business, yet keep in mind that giving your prospect an “insider's look” is a powerful way to demonstrate the efficacy of whatever you're selling.


Positioning yourself as an expert is at the heart of “attraction marketing.”

When you're recognized as an expert in the marketplace, your claims are automatically viewed as credible.

You've proven yourself, if you will.

Learn how to attract prospects while you sleep using the power of attraction marketing right here.

Luckily, if you're brand new and without results…

You can also “borrow” credibility.

Simply find someone credible who's saying what you're trying to say.

And quote them.

It's nonconsciously an implied endorsement of the claims you're making.

What do I mean by that?

Remember how I started with a story (about Elisha Otis), dropped a quote from a recognized authority (Gary Bencivenga), and then referenced another expert (John Carlton), all reinforcing my thesis about the importance of using proof?

All those examples lend credence to what you're reading.

They are “supporting evidence,” adding weight to my claims.

Nothing sneaky or deceptive about it.


Facts, stats, and figures are another powerful way of borrowing credibility.

Of course, if you've got results, share 'em!

Otherwise, find some compelling data from around the web to support your conclusions.

For example…

“XYZ organization finds that email marketing is more effective than Facebook by a 3-to-1 margin.”

Easy as that!

Read more about using facts to support your claims below…

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A head-to-head comparison can be a powerful tool.

However, there is a danger as well, as you're giving “airtime” to your competition.

Thus, for most offers in the affiliate/network marketing space, it's not recommended to compare one company vs. another.

It works in some industries, no doubt, but not so much in attraction marketing.

So keep your folks focused, not distracted.

After all, opportunity seeking and jumping from one thing to the next, are all too common behaviors.


Pictures are compelling proof.

Think about “before and after” photos.

No better proof for a diet or exercise routine, right?

Little more needs to be said.

Now, keep this in mind though…

Many social platforms, Facebook included, aren't big fans of such advertising.

So, as is always prudent, do your due diligence first.

But always remember that the more concrete proof you can visually demonstrate, the more salient your claims become.


Best of all is showing your own RESULTS.

If you can prove your claims by way of your OWN data, that's always the best practice.

If you've got a lead magnet that claims…

“How I'm consistently generating 15+ leads a day from social media”

…and you can show those exact results, you're done!

That's your ad, landing page, opt-in bribe, and maybe even a product right there!


Okay, those seven proof elements are absolutely the most potent way you can reinforce any sales message.

They can overcome skepticism, suspend everyone's knee-jerk “BS detector,” and…

Pivot your prospects into “possibility thinking”

Here's the psychology behind this process…

If you can prove your claims and demonstrate that YOU clearly know how to achieve the results your prospects desire for themselves…

They will be 100% ready and willing to listen to you.

Make sense?

If you know how to do what they want to learn how to do, then you've got their attention.

And once you have their attention, you've created the opportunity to take the next step in overcoming their skepticism, which is this…

You've also got to prove that you're a trustworthy human being

38883_blogbanner_101316-06Here's the thing…

Chances are really strong that your prospects have been “burnt” before.

So before they're ever going to make a buying decision, you've got to prove that you're a trusted resource.

After all, proof isn't a “one time” deal, especially in attraction marketing.

You've got to show up consistently to EARN their trust.

And the way to do that?

It's by getting folks on your mailing list and cultivating an ongoing relationship.

And the best way to get folks on your list?

By offering a compelling lead magnet.

And what's a lead magnet?

It's the “free product” that everyone offers in exchange for subscribing to their newsletter.

You've probably seen dozens of 'em, usually in the form of a PDF eBook.

And for good reason too…

It’s simply not enough to have an “awesome” newsletter anymore.

People expect to get something in return for signing up.

So until you have a compelling lead magnet…

People will question your authority and have no clear incentive to subscribe.

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Until next time,

Andrew Draughon
Director of Content
Elite Marketing Pro


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